Tonight I am sharing the many ANZAC Day memories sent to me by some of those who sew for Aussie Heroes. When I asked people to send these in to me I really did not stop and think what I might be receiving and all I can say is that I have been blown away. I guess because my family does not have any particularly poignant ANZAC Day memories I had not really thought about what people would write. What follows, I believe are some really special memories and I sincerely hope that somewhere in each family these memories are recorded for future generations.
I have no longer the luxury of being able to ask my parents or grandparents their memories of the war and I know there were some stories on both sides. My parents were both born in 1930. My Mum lived in Perth and my Dad lived in the country so they both had different stories to share.
I can remember both of them talking about rationing and making do. My grandfather, Pop, was the printer at the West Australian Newspaper and so he was in a protected job (I think that was what they were called) so he could not go to war.
ANZAC Day was a day of remembrance in my family but we didn't go to dawn services. I don't know why. We did, however, religiously watch the March on TV from beginning to end. It wasn't until I turned 19 and joined the RAAF as an Air Traffic Controller that I first left WA and travelled east. After completing my Officer Training at Point Cook I moved to RAAF Base East Sale to do the Air Traffic Control Course and then I was posted to RAAF Base Richmond. In that first year away from home I visited Canberra and, of course, had to go to the War Memorial. By this time I had made friends with loads of young aircrew and as I wandered around the War Memorial, it was their faces I saw in the photos and the displays. I was struck with the feeling that there but for the Grace of God go I and my friends at the time. It surprised me at 19 years old just how emotional I felt and how may tears I shed and had to fight back at the thought. How would it have felt if it were my peers and friends who were faced with WWI and WWII and Vietnam? I still can't walk through the War Memorial without getting emotional.
One day I want to visit the Afghanistan Display I have heard about but it won't be whilst we are still there - I will wait till we no longer have our wonderful heroes over there before I do that. I know too many names, too many back stories, too many wives and mothers and wonderful Aussie Heroes.
ANZAC Day for me is spent watching the march from start to finish. Because of my arthritis I can't manage a dawn service or getting in to the city to watch the March. My husband will attend the local one at Castle Hill and I will get up when he does and watch the broadcast on TV whenever it is on. Later in the morning I will be in my sewing room, probably preparing things to be appliqued on quilts and laundry bags, while I watch the march and I will not get as much done as I plan as I will be listening to the stories and the kleenex will be near.
Here is what some of the other Aussie Hero Friends remember.
ANZAC Day
always reminds me about my pop. He served when we were young. I can remember
his photo hanging in our hallway, it was a black and white photo of him in his
dress uniform. My pop and that photo
had a big influence on me growing up, I enrolled into Air Force Cadets as soon
as I was old enough and marched in every ANZAC Day Parade. We lived away from
the city so we were up well before 3am every ANZAC Day so we would get to the
muster area early. I was proud to be marching alongside the Vets in the parade,
wishing my pop was there to march beside me.
He is now no longer with us and I think about him often, more so on
ANZAC Day.
Joanne
Growing up
as a kid ANZAC DAY was always Dad’s
day. We’d watch him get in the car every
year to head off to the local march.
Then Mum and us kids would watch
the service on TV. ooking back it would
have been a great thing to see him march, I don’t know if it was because we
were a one car family living miles from town,or something decided between Dad
and Mum. He only ever made it to Sydney
a couple of years before he died, I did watch the service on TV but I did not
see him.
I still to
this day I have never been to an ANZAC march,
maybe one da, but I really don’t think I ever will.
Hi. My name with the AHQ'ers is Kiwi Karen.
As you would
guess I grew up in New Zealand. My
grandfather served and survived WW1. He
went on to marry and had 5 children. My
father was the eldest of these 5. In
WW2 Dad went to Egypt, Italy and
Japan. Naturally he survived otherwise I
would not be here, I am number 3 of 4 children.
My memories
of ANZAC days started after I joined the Brownies. I would have been 6 years old. Mum would get up early to help me into my
brownie uniform and I would go off with Dad to the Petone Railway station where
the epitaph was located for the dawn service.
( Captain Cook landed on Petone beach when he sailed into Wellington
Harbour )
The reason
for being dressed in my Brownie uniform was that after we got home we all went
to a later service. Here all the
Brownies, Girl Guides, Cubs and Scouts participated in the march.
The men and
women would march up the road with their heads held high and arms swinging in
uniform lines. They all had medals on
their chests that shone from the lights of the street lamps. There was quite a crowd of people there. I can't ever remember standing with any one
that I knew, but I was in the front row, so proud to see my dad marching. I look back now - I don't think at 6 years old I even knew why
I was there, I just knew it was very
important for my Dad to be there and so that was where I had to be too.
When the
service was over we would all go into the waiting room of the station and have
hot finger food. I tasted Dad's coffee
once. Yuk, I guess it had rum in
it. I did this every year with Dad until
we left New Zealand. I was 14 then. In Australia we went to ANZAC day dawn
services wherever we were living at the time.
There were very few ANZAC day dawn services that I missed going to with
Dad even though sometimes we were living in different States.
Dad's last
ANZAC day dawn service was in France, 2011.
My daughter, Pene, and I took Dad on a 6 day World War One battlefields
tour. Dad wanted to see where his father
had fought. Dad had his 88th birthday on
the last day of the tour in Belgium.
Sadly he had
a stroke a week after we arrived back in Australia and died soon after. I very proudly wear Dad's medals to the dawn
services now.
Kiwi Karen
Before I met
my DH (dear husband for quilters) ANZAC Day used to mainly be a day of shame
for me. Why? Because my German-born grandfather, fought for the Germans in
World War 1. As a child and later as an adult I never felt that I should attend
an ANZAC Day service because my dear beloved grandfather, fought for the enemy.
Then on May 19, 1990 I met Barry, my dear beloved husband, a Vietnam Veteran
and my whole world changed. One of the first things Barry ever said to me was
“I’m a Vietnam Veteran” and I in my naivety thought “So?” not because of any
disrespect but out of ignorance as to exactly what that meant in terms of how
it affected my DH and how this would change my life. Just to put things in
perspective I am 13 years younger than my husband and I was just 6 when he went
to Vietnam at the age of 19.
From memory
the first ANZAC Day march that I attended was in Mt Isa in 1991 and I have
attended ANZAC Day services ever since. Since my husband became Sub Branch
President seven years ago (and to this day) of Caloundra RSL Sub Branch
(Queensland), the day has meant attending services with him and helping with
the Women’s Auxiliary (we help out at the breakfast at the RSL after the Dawn
Service and then at the 11am service) and running around madly handing out
thousands of Australian flags to the public at the morning service for the Sub
Branch, along with a few friends, also wives of ex-servicemen, who also hand
out the flags.
Now I stand
tall next to my husband and remember his service and that of his mates, both
living and passed on, who gave their lives for our wonderful country. I
remember too my dear beloved grandfather, a highly decorated German soldier,
who passed on and who my DH had the pleasure to meet, thankfully and maybe next
year I will march in his honour, as apparently I am now allowed to. Grandfather
did become a naturalised Aussie when he emigrated to Australia in the early 20s
after becoming disillusioned with the direction that Germany was heading in. I
also remember my three great uncles on my paternal grandmother’s side (three
Schache brothers who were persecuted for having a German surname but being
Australian borndespite serving in the Australian Defence Service. Two served in
the Australian Navy, but who served on
the HMAS Sydney, and HMAS Hobart and one great uncle Schache who served in the
Australian Army on the Kokoda Track, all of whom I did not find out about until
recent years.
Part of
ANZAC Day and the weeks leading up to it, is being mindful of the rising
anxiety that my dear husband suffers, due to his PTSD (from Vietnam). Vietnam Veterans’ Day and
Remembrance Day trigger similar responses. During these weeks too I help out
selling ANZAC Day badges as part of the RSL Women’s Auxiliary, for our Sub
Branch, and I have often very interesting conversations with ex-Diggers and
also family members of those who have served.
We live in the most wonderful country on earth and so I thank those who
are currently serving our country and those who have served.
Bern , proud
wife of a Vietnam Veteran
My fondest
memory of ANZAC Day was when I was nine years old and a member of the Junior
Red Cross at Artarmon Public School. We,
as a group, went to the city and marched with the returned soldiers. My mother had made my sister and I a white
nurse uniform (as required) and we had lovely red capes made from red flannel
and lined with red taffeta and also veils with the red cross on the front. Off
we went and marched the whole of the march in the rain. We loved being able to take large bunches of
rosemary from our bush. This day was so
memorable because the colour of the red taffeta lining our capes ran in the
rain and we returned to my grandmother with very bright pink uniforms…. and we
were then told we had a new baby brother.
I did have
two uncles who were returned servicemen and an aunt who was a V.A.D. (LINK) My great uncle was a Gallipoli
returned serviceman who was in the contingent that went to ANZAC Cove for the
naming of the site which, I have been led to believe, was his suggestion to Mr.
Hawke
Like many of
my generation, ANZAC Day was just another day off school. I grew up watching
war movies where the heroes were always American or, sometimes English.
Australians were generally comic relief, bit parts. In the late 70s, early 80s movies like The
Odd Angry Shot and Gallipoli were being made and The Sullivans was compulsory
TV viewing. There was a whole part of Australian history that was being opened
up to me. I suddenly realised that the old guys who marched on the 25th April
had a proud, unspoken past. They had risked everything because "somebody
had to do it". Their families had endured long periods of separation and
worry. ANZAC Day wasn't about glorifying
war but remembering and honouring the sacrifices made by individuals. A revelation to an impressionable
teenager. I am still in awe of those
willing to continue this tradition of service for your country.
For me ANZAC
Day is a reminder to say a quiet thank you to all the men and women who have
served and those who continue to serve.
I belong to
the Aussie Heroes Quilting Group, but you are all the real Aussie Heroes. I admire you for your duty to our beautiful
Country of Australia.
I am a
mother, a grandmother, a wife. I can’t
imagine what it would be like for me to have a son/daughter, grandchild or
husband in a war zone – so I know you all have family members who must worry
about you, but they must also be very proud.
Please stay
safe
" My
early Memories of ANZAC Day"
I arrived in
Australia in 1972 and am a naturalised
Aussie but I was actually born in a small dairy farming community in a rural
district in the North Island of New Zealand in 1950, so, my early memories of
ANZAC day in the 50's are from a New Zealander's perspective, but, I am sure
that they probably would not be too
dissimilar to what happened on ANZAC day here in Australia in the 50's. ANZAC day of course was always a public
holiday, - not that it made any difference to the farmers as the cows still had
to be milked - and the lead up to it was always the same. Everyone wore a red poppy at the ANZAC day
service and for a week or so before hand, when time permitted I would go out with my father to sell poppies
to all the neighbouring farming families.
It was a way of raising funds for the RSA (Returned Services Association
which was the NZ equivalent of the RSL).
My father was in the RAF during WWII and was in 117 Squadron which was a
transport and communications unit during that war. I am not sure where he was or what he did for
most of the war as he never talked very much about it at all in front of us
children, but I do know that apart from England he spent some time in Egypt and
Canada. I still have his flying log
somewhere.
For at least
a week before ANZAC day my father would spend hours polishing up his medals
ready for the several parades he would be in.
I am lucky enough to now have his medals.
A few days
before ANZAC day our primary school always held a remembrance service at
school and sometimes an ex serviceman would come along to give us a little
talk. I can remember my father coming
one year (probably in the late 50's)
which made me feel very proud. I can't
remember much of what he talked about but I do remember him showing us all a
war time newspaper which I didn't know he had and being very fascinated by it.
ANZAC day
was a very special day as there was a wreath laying memorial service held in
our local district at our small War Memorial which as far as I can remember was not opened to
the public very often. I used to love
going to that service where afterwards we were allowed to go inside and I
always made a beeline to look at the photos of the young soldiers who had
fallen during the various wars which were up on the wall. My father and 3 of his 5 brothers enlisted
in the services during WWII, only my father and one uncle who was in the army
returned. My uncle who returned was awarded the Military Medal for
bravery which was very special for the family.
One of my uncles died in Crete and his picture was the one I loved to
look at every year. It was always very
sad to look at the photos of all the local boys who had headed off overseas and
did not return. During the ANZAC
service the school children were all lined up into two rows facing each other
and part of the service consisted of us reciting the wonderful poem "For
The Fallen" which we always referred to as "Binyon's Lines" as a
poet called Binyon wrote it. I always
felt very very moved when reciting it as it made me think of my Uncle Bill who
I of course I never knew, and even
though it must be at least 50 years since I last recited it, I can still
remember several verses of it:
They went
with songs to the battle, they were young,
Straight of
limb, true of eye, steady and aglow.
They were
staunch to the end against odds uncounted,
They fell
with their faces to the foe.
They shall
grow not old, as we that are left grow old;
Age shall
not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going
down of the sun and in the morning
We will
remember them.
The service
always ended with The Last Post being played.
This has always made me shiver.
After the
service ended we children were all taken home while my father, in his suit
and wearing his medals, headed off into
town to join his RSA mates to have their march and get together and reminisce
with each other and we didn't see him again until very late that night, and
usually quite the worse for wear. My
mum and I always milked the cows that night.
Just thinking about ANZAC day always makes me
feel very emotional, don't know why and I spend the whole day in front of the
telly watching all the various parades including the Gallipoli telecast
thinking of those who are long gone and those who are currently serving.
Claire
A few years
ago I travelled to far flung places around the globe. One of the places I went
to was Gallipoli (although it was not ANZAC Day). I toured the peninsula with a bus load of
people mainly from Commonwealth countries. When we arrived at ANZAC Cove the
feeling was quite surreal, but it wasn't until a little while later when I was
sitting quietly on ANZAC Beach, reflecting on the feats of the ANZACs that it
really hit me - I looked around me and was stunned to see the entire bus load
of people sitting on their own patches of sand along the beach. No one spoke.
Everyone was contemplative and just staring out to sea. And we stayed that way until it was time to
leave.
Whether we
know all the stories and legends of the ANZACs or not, it seems we are all awed
by their sacrifice and are fiercely proud of what they did and achieved for us
all.
This ANZAC
Day stay safe and know all of us back home are also fiercely proud of you and
what you are achieving.
Sarah Leheny
My only real
memory of ANZAC Day my daughter had just arrived home from Somalia on ANZAC Day
when the ABC radio called me to get her to do an interview. It is an unspoken rule with us that we never
volunteer other family members to do something. I had to refuse but told them to contact the
Airforce which they did, the outcome was ,she was met on the tarmac with an
order to speak to the ABC, it turned out to be quite a good interview but we
were unable to record it due to a faulty machine. Thank God for having a good
memory.
ANZAC Day
plays a large part in our lives and our community. My husband and I live in a
small country town on the banks of the Murray River. My husband is President of
our local RSL sub Branch so our involvement starts well before the day and we
start early on ANZAC morning.
Our day starts
with our Dawn Service at 0600. Over 200 people from the town, sub branch and
surrounding areas are all there well before 0600 to attend and participate in
the service. The last few years we have paid tribute to our fallen personnel
from Afghanistan by reading all names out during the service. Last year we had
a lone piper play Amazing Grace while the names were being readout. This was a
very emotional tribute to our fallen young men and there was many a tear in the
eyes of our townsfolk. After the service our Country Golf Club put on a Gun
Fire breakfast for all who attended the service.
Then at 0845 it is off by bus to another very
small local town that are a chapter of our RSL to help them with their march
and ANZAC service.
1130 finds us back home ready for our march
and tribute to our fallen.
Once again
our town helps us celebrate ANZAC Day. All our ex service personnel that are
able march accompanied by a band, a catafalque party local school children,
scouts, guides, pony club with pony mascot and the local fire brigade. All are
just so keen to be there and march and help us celebrate.
After the
service is over the RSL sub branch put
on a luncheon and drinks for all ex serving personnel and their families.
This year we
are paying an extra tribute to our World War 11 veterans as they are all
elderly and keep reminding us that they won't be around much longer. We are
also presenting an RSL flag to our member who has carried the flag for 25 years
and this is his last year.
Our ANZAC
Day is always a long tiring and
fulfilling day but it is our way of saying thankyou to all ex and serving
personnel
Anne
My memories
of ANZAC Day
When I was a
child in the 1950s, my Mum took my sister and me into the city most years to
see Dad in the ANZAC Day march. We would wait at a pre-arranged spot along the
route, sitting in the gutter when we got tired of standing, and Dad would look
for us and always give us a smile and a wave. We would wave back proudly with
our little Aussie flags that Mum bought for us from a street vendor. When it
was all over, Mum took us home and Dad went off to a reunion somewhere to
reminisce with his wartime mates.
Hours later,
often late at night, Mum would get a phone call. She would drag us out of bed,
lie us down on the back seat of the car with our pillows and a blanket (no seat
belts in those days!) and drive off to wherever in Sydney’s sprawling suburbs
Dad had ended up. She then had to get her “under the weather” husband into the
car and hope he would fall asleep on the way home, which he usually did. Once
home, it was a matter of unloading three sleepy bodies before she could go to
bed herself.
As a parent
myself, I took my own children to our local Dawn Service and ANZAC march
whenever possible. It was just as moving, even though my Dad was no longer
alive.
These days I
watch the march on television every year, noting sadly how few of the veterans
of World War II are still around – fewer every year. And every year I sit glued
to the telecast with tears rolling down my cheeks.
Thank you
from the bottom of my heart and on behalf of my family.
We
appreciate the sacrifice you are making every day, especially on your
deployment being away from your loved ones and your friends.
We live in
the best country in the world and this is all thanks to you and men and women
like you
spanning a couple of hundred years.
I don’t have
anyone in my immediate family that has served in a war, one of my Grand
Mother’s cousins died at Gallipoli.
Best wishes
and safe return to Australia.
From Kaylee
of Tweed Heads.
As a kid
ANZAC Day meant putting on my white dress and veil with the red cross on it and
marching from Dino's store down to the Cenotaph in Greta...the only day of the
year that the main highway from Newcastle to Singleton was ever closed to
traffic. We had a marching band and were
ever so serious...but afterwards we played games and had a good time. We heard about the fighting and the deaths,
but at our age we didn't then understand
the meaning of the word ANZAC. It was
not until the war that coincided with my teenage years that I fully understood
the sacrifices that our fantastic Defence Forces were prepared to make...ahh
the innocence of youth. These days I
attend the Dawn service at Bagdad, Tasmania with my hubby, Dickie Duckett (WO1
Engineer Retired) as he conducts the Service and later another Service at 11:00
am at Kempton where the Brighton GreenPonds RSL Club is situated. We haven't
gotten around to playing 2up just yet but I do remember winning a few coins at
the Sergeant’s Mess in Puckapunyal and Holsworthy when hubby was still in the
Army….what fun as I normally cannot even win a chook raffle! I know that all our wonderful Service
Personal have family somewhere in Australia but to me...you are my family. You are my sons and daughters. You are the people that I love and
respect. Please take care and come home
to those who love you. God bless. Cheers Judy Duckett.
Our son is
in the RAAF, his grandfather served in WW2 and he had 3 great grandfathers who
served in WW1. I am grateful beyond
belief for all who have chosen to serve their nation in this manner and given
of themselves to safeguard others. This
year on ANZAC Day we will attend a service as we usually do. We try and find a
service to attend no matter where we are and then find an RSL club and buy a
serving member a drink, in lieu of being able to buy all serving members
one. So as we raise a glass this
Thursday my husband and I will be saluting all of you and wishing you a safe
and happy future.
Best wishes
Pam and
Graeme Matthews
ANZAC Day
I am a
leader at Flagstaff Hill Scouts in South Australia for ANZAC Day our District,
comprising of five groups get together on the eve of ANZAC Day at Blackwood War
Monument.
We have an
opening ceremony at 6pm on 24th April at which our scouts ( aged 11yrs to 14
yrs) & Venturers ( aged 15yrs to 18yrs)
start an all-night vigil guarding the monument until dawn. Each youth member spends ½ hour on duty, with
4 members taking part in the ½ hour session.
We have so many youth that want to be a part of the vigil that sometimes
they do not all get a turn. The youth do
not mind how cold it is or if it is raining, they all enjoy the night &
honouring our war heroes. I am really
proud that kids so young wish to be part of the tradition we have started. I have been a part of scouting for 13 years
& I know that it has been going for a least that long if not longer.
So many wonderful stories here - as Jan-Maree said up top, please write them down to pass onto your children and grandchildren.
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