I received a quilt last week, and have been looking for a time without distraction where I can say thankyou (and this is it :)
I have used the time to think about what to say, etc, but I am still short on words. I still don't know.
The quilt itself is beautiful. The pattern and placement are amazing. The hemming and attention to detail is perfect (thankyou).
The embroidered Rising Sun (thankyou Joan B), which still evokes a sense of "must protect" in me, is sharp and precise.
The quilting stitch (thankyou Philomena H) is super-impressive, and gets better the more I look at it.
I use it almost daily, thanks to the cold weather, and it will come with me when I travel.
But it is more than the sum of its' parts. It is the intent.
I remember a quote from Maya Angelou that I read well over a decade ago, that:
"People will typically forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel".
I have always found this to be true. Both good and bad. People can use all the right words, but if their intent is selfish or hurtful, you will never forget.
Thankfully, the opposite is also true, in that as long as your intentions are genuinely good and selfless, you can make a few mistakes along the way - as long as you keep fighting for the right thing and helping those around you.
This is the part that - for me - stands out with AHQ Volunteers. You have the unwavering, selfless intent, executed with precision and without expectation (other than showing a stranger that you care).
This is what resonates with me. Throughout 24 years in the ADF, volunteer work, and raising kids, this is the kind of psychological compass we all should have, or at least try to incorporate in our values.
The unwavering, selfless intent from AHQ is, I think, what most people enter the ADF and emergency services with. For ADF personnel, I think this gets impacted by deployments and other experiences, diluting and confounding the core intent. But AHQ help remind people of it, by staying selfless and apolitical.
Now that I have sat down to write, I am glad to have been able to identify and start to explain why I am so grateful.
Making a quilt can seem like a small gesture, but it is not. The intent and selfless effort behind it is enormous.
It is everything.
Thankyou
Sincerely.
PS: Fourteen hundred and fifty-five quilts?! What the heck?!!
Thankyou
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